Defense mechanism/ Neurotic needs

The use of the defense mechanism and the use of neurotic need is very essential to identify how I behave, interact and socialize with other people. After I did the om-line test the result I obtained was denial mechanism and the displacement mechanism. The denial mechanism explains to me that I am afraid to the truth and certainly I denied it and can't confront it. For example, in the past I really couldn't face the truth of a certain situation, I usually ignored it and said that the statement is false that they are inventing so they put me in an embarrassment with other relatives. I believe that if I continue to deny the truth this will certainly affect my future.. In my case being single I would not have much problem in using the denial mechanism but in being married the denial mechanism should be used at all. The other defense mechanism is the displacement where the frustration is taken out on something else. For example, I always get scold by my past bosses because I always do in my own way.. In the consequence I didn't do the job perfectly where I took out the frustration on it so it didn't finished so good. I certainly believe that the displacement mechanism tries to indicate me that in the near future I will have some problems in the job and even get fired.
The neurotic need that I have is personal achievement and self sufficiency and independence. The personal achievement need means that I am always insecure where I would like to achieve higher goal.This can help me where I can have a good future and learn more. The other neurotic need is self sufficiency and independence, where I would always wanted to alone at some point. When I am performing a job I would always want to be alone to have a little more of concentration of these stage I would like to be independent and to not dependent on others.